Over the past 11 years, my ego has learned to deal with a difficult situation. You see, my youngest, who just turned 12, is what you might call "finicky." Picky. Fussy. You might even call her downright persnickety when it comes to food. Gradually, however, her tastes have broadened a smidgeon, her list of "likes," though still vastly out-numbered by "dislikes," has increased, and her tact, fortunately, has taken great strides forward. We've come to an understanding; don't ask, don't tell. If I don't ask her whether she likes what I've served, she won't have to tell me the truth. So when she asked me what was for dinner one night a few weeks ago, I responded with the usual "I don't know." "Will I like it?" "Probably not." She then asked if we could have pesto, one of her favorite foods. I was glad for the suggestion and that she would actually enjoy our dinner that night. On the spur of the moment,